Leadership in the church is not a casual calling—it is a divine and noble task, and one that affects every person who follows Christ. Whether we realize it or not, the spiritual health of a church family rarely rises above the spiritual life of its leaders. That’s why Paul’s words in 1 Timothy 3 are so essential for us today.

Paul doesn’t begin with a checklist of skills. Instead, he starts with character. Out of fifteen qualifications he lists for an overseer (elder/pastor), only one involves gifting—the ability to teach. The rest focus on who a man is when no one is looking: his integrity, self-control, gentleness, hospitality, and faithfulness. God’s primary concern is not how gifted we are, but how godly we are.

And yet, leadership is not for the elite or untouchable. Paul says, “If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task.” (1 Tim. 3:1) It’s a beautiful thing when a man sets his heart on growing in Christ and leading with humility. This aspiration, however, must be grounded in a sense of calling from God, affirmed by the church, and proven through faithful living.

Some of you young men may feel a quiet nudge when reading these verses. Don’t ignore that. If God is placing leadership on your heart, start living it out now—in your home, your workplace, and your relationships. People will begin to recognize it. And if you already serve as a deacon, elder, or teacher—press on in grace. Your calling is high, and your faithfulness matters.

To the whole church, let me urge this: pray for your leaders. Many grow weary not from the work, but from the weight of expectations and criticism. Be gracious. Build up those who shepherd you. Encourage them when they fall short, because Christian leaders aren’t perfect—they’re pilgrims like the rest of us, walking with Christ and relying on grace daily.

Let us be a church that honors God’s blueprint for leadership. Let’s value character over charisma, faithfulness over flash, and godliness over giftedness. And may we all, leader or not, remember that we ultimately follow one Leader—Jesus Christ, whose Word leads us all.

Grace and peace,

Pastor Daryl